Conflict Resolution

Kathleen Warszycki

Divorce Mediation

Divorce is a stressful event filled with emotional and financial worries.

Keep decision making in your hands. Conflict Resolution offers you the way to stay in full control of your Dispute not the court system. This gives you full control of the outcome and saves you thousands of dollars for both parties.

Mediation offers clients an excellent alternative to the adversarial approach through the courts.  Mediation is much less costly, time consuming and gives all parties the opportunity to make decisions based on their own circumstances.  You choose what is best for your family.

Your angry, scared, frustrated, financially in a difficult situation; You don't know what to do and who to turn to.  Your friends tell you go to court and get everything or don't let them have anything.  Is this realalistic?

  • Who pays the mortgage?
  • Does the house have to be sold?
  • What are the consequences if I buy her/him out?
  • Who pays for schooling for the children?
  • Who pays for the medical and dental needs of the children?
  • Do I still get medical coverage? 
  • Do I have a right to maintenance(alimony)?
  • Who is the custodial parent and what does that mean to the other party? 
  • What are the other options available to us?
  • Who makes the decisions for the children?
  •  Who is going to pay child support? 
  • All these questions and more are the decisions that have to be made in a divorce.

Whether it is in the courts or in your own mediation setting, you always are the ones that will have to make decisions.  If you cannot, the courts will. Besides saving the family from months or years of conflict in the courts or having the court appoint a guardian, for your children,who will give their recommendations to the courts.Or is it important for you to have the control to make your decisions for the rest of your and your childrens lives.  No conflict is easy, and certainly divorce is extemely emotional for all involved, but you can go through the process in a more positive manner.  Your saving can be as much as $30,000+ each.

A couple came to me after being in court for 2 years and each spent $30,000, but were not yet divorced.  Their decisions were confrontational because neither wanted to give in to the other party.  They tried to fight over things that were inconsequential, just hoping the other side would give up.  Finally, after entering mediation, expressing their anger, their frustrations and fears,  the truth came out why they were not willing to compromise.  Their reasons would not be your reasons, but to them it mattered.    

Settle your dispute now.  In Mediation and with Conflict Resolution, the sessions are focusing negotiations at a quicker process than the court system. Mediation keeps all parties involved, therefore the sessions educate and help parties work together to reach an agreement. With Conflict Resolution you can work out a solution that could end with all parties in an agreement without the time and expense of the adverserial approach.  

 

                                                            Contact Kathleen 

                                       Call 631-804-9851         Fax# 631-265-2325 

                                               Kathleen@NYConflictResolution.com



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